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German-American children in Germany. What happens in the divorce?

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  • German-American children in Germany. What happens in the divorce? Post # 6
so, we will briefly summarize

You have been living together in D for 10 years
You have two children (4 and 6 years old)
There has been stress in the relationship for "a few months"
therefore, you are now thinking about the consequences of a divorce

So far right?

If this were 'my (marriage) life - and 90% went well (for more than 9 years) - then I would try first of all to find out what exactly was the trigger for the current crisis "a few months ago".
What / who has changed?

What does your wife say on the subject?

Incidentally, I noticed that your incoming post is mainly about what you fear for yourself for "stress" if it came to a divorce. Here everything revolves around you - of course, your thread is - but I still miss the "balanced reporting" a bit.
You try to stay calm
You can't stand the situation
You cannot live without your children
You pay for "everything"
Your wife can never do it without you
it makes it impossible to live with her under one roof